Wedding Ideas

The party

Finally the wedding day is here, and everything must be perfect. So much worries in the last few months that you barely have the strength to concentrate on the party. First of all you have to establish the budget and depending on the budget but also on the theme of the wedding you can have a classic, a funny, a house, a romantic party.
Full of memories, enjoyment and appreciation of the guests is the wedding party. If you decided to make the wedding during summer , then the best choice would be to organize the wedding party outdoors. This party will need to take into account details over the organization of a local wedding.
You can have an outdoor wedding somewhere in the mountains, the sea or in a restaurant that has a large garden, possibly on the bank of a river or a lake. As these places are “hunted” by most couples to marry following appropriate that you make reservation at least a year before the wedding. Do not forget to prepared a contract by which to establish clearly which are your responsibilities, prices and responsibilities of the restaurant. If you want the wedding to take place in a public space, beach, meadow, you will have to establish what rights do you have with the city hall.
Because you will never be sure what the nature will reserve for your special day, to avoid inconveniences caused by unexpected changes of climate is required to buy a tent.
If you organize the party in a restaurant this implies a lot of aspects that don’t have to be omitted like: the location, the number of places and the number of guests, the floral arrangements, the music, details that you should take into consideration from the moment you decided that you are getting married.
But on your wedding day is more important to enjoy your moment, that it is a unique one, to dance, to socialize to feel beautiful and full of life. It is day that you have dreamed at since you were a little girl and nothing will ruin your dream. So be a happy bride!!!

Maid of honor

The maid of honor status is not a commercial invention of our time. The tradition dates from ancient Roman times, where bridesmaids formed a human shield with the role of hide the bride who didn’t had to be seen by the kidnappers. A variant of the tradition says that bridesmaids were dressed as the bride so the evil spirits to be fooled and not know which one will get marry . They were proceeding in the same way with the groom and the Knights of Honor, only that they could be exposed to evil spirits. In the nearest time, maid of honor is a close friend or sister, it really doesn’t matter , more important is to be as many.

Being maid of honor is not so easy considering the fact that your responsibilities are a lot of activities such as that of always sitting around the bride to see if she needs something, helps her to dress , put the flowers on the chest of the guests, receive the guests with a smile and the list could go on. But the hardest time is the choice of dress! First, you must think of a color! In some cases, the bride gave the green light in choosing bridesmaid dress pattern, but she asked that the color to be like her dress, that is all white.

If the future bride will have no claim and leave everything to your appreciation, then you’ll just work it out. You will have to search for a different color not like that of the bride’s dress because most of the brides prefer that no other female person should have a dress in the same color as the wedding dress . But you also have to take care when choosing the dress, because you don’t want to have a similar dress with the godmother or other important guests. So if it is possible wear an unique dress.
What is the role of a Bridesmaid?
Besides accompanying the bride to the altar, the maid of honor must be a physical and moral support. For some of us is an honor to be maid of honor, but for others can be a nightmare because the bride turns into a terrorist. But you have to be sympathetic, you will have to understand her because it will be your turn one day to be a bride. Maid of honor is the organizer of the brides party . Attention is a great responsibility and make sure you do your homework well because all the heavy work will fall on your back. Be organized and compose a list of what to do to prepare the respective parties, but also with what will happen during parties. If you have courage and you think you know your girlfriend, sister so well then you have to organize a surprise party which will appeal to them. But if you know the bride is very demanding, be sure to consult with her before you take any important decision.

Choosing the wedding invitations

Besides the wedding dress, your partner suit , cake and all sorts of interior design, a wedding means something else … invitations. Knowing that this is the first element that announces the wedding, the invitations have come to represent an extremely important issue. If the invitation is successful, then the whole event itself will be perfect … or so it is said. When it comes to the guests and the model that it will have it, it’s best to choose one that will represent you and your husband. Wedding invitation has a role similar to that of first impression that anyone can do in certain situations: the first one that announces the wedding, its mode of presentation should be related to the theme wedding and announce its style (romantic , cheerful, classic, nonconformist, etc..) . The fact that was sent to a person it means that it occupies a place somewhere in the heart of brides and should be able to provide a discreet way information about what type of party will be the wedding.
Styles of wedding invitations:
Elegant. If you want to attract the attention of your guests with good taste and refinement, such a variant is perfect. Classic combination of black and white will not go out of fashion anytime soon, and velvet, the material it is made could form a bow. This will always be fashionable.

Floral design. Floral design is very often used for wedding invitations. It symbolizes the naturalness and freshness of a relationship at the beginning of the road.

Classic. Classical variations are endless but often they are now symbols of hearts and elegant colors. Such an invitation symbolizes the connection between the two souls who are now going to go the same way.

Simple wedding=simple invitations. If the wedding will be simple you have to choose invitations with a minimal pattern. Just a simple paper on which it is written the text with a nice envelope are enough to become a wedding invitation.

Also if you don’t have a big budget
Those who want to save money but also to create some really unique wedding invitations, you may choose to do themselves, rather than resort to a specialized surveying. Whether you choose to do them on the computer, when one of the bride and groom or a close friend is familiar with graphics programs and then just print them on colored paper or make them by hand using colored paper, scissors with different models and different applications. There are lots of specialized shops Handcraft, Craft, decorations and accessories, from where you can choose. The guests will be very pleased to hear that you did your own wedding invitations!

Guests list

Creating list of wedding invitations can become a total chaos. Whether you require the mother to invite all neighbors, whether your partner insists to invite colleagues from work, you will encounter some obstacles in planning the list of guests. There is still hope. If you follow these tips then you will not have some nightmare surprises invited for your wedding.
Choose invitations depending on budget.
Before you begin to think about the guest list think about the budget that it is allocated for the wedding, but also the type of wedding that you desire. If you want a wedding with a few guests, you should choose just the important persons in your life to participate at the wedding and you can come with a plus on the menu, decorations and favors. If you want to make a big wedding, because you have so many people that you cannot cut from the list, you can opt for a more modest and less menu decorations to fit into the budget originally set. If you want to make no compromise in terms of wedding style, location, menu and decorations, you will have to limit the number of guests, so you could have the wedding that you desire without making a hole in the budget.
Who are the guests
Generally it is , told that the family who pays more for the cost of the wedding have the right to invite more people to the wedding.
The simplest approach is that each set of parents have to invite the same number of people or a proportion of funds contributed to the cost of the wedding. If your parents or in-laws really need to invite more than the number of persons than you shall consider to ask them more money to cover the spending but also not to overcome the potential of the location.It is out of the question not invite your parents, grandparents, brothers, uncles and favorite aunts, so do not talk about it, but about those relatives whom you rarely see or never . Even if the parents insist to invite them, because this is right or that have some debt to them, try to make the list so that the closest relatives to be present. Then review the budget and room capacity where the wedding is organized and only then include other people . Relatives you do not ever see or even do not know … can be excluded to protect yourself from embarrassing moments to congratulate you and squeeze you in their arms from people you have never saw in your life.
Friends and colleagues. Where’s the party and fun, tend to collect a lot of people, but that does not mean that you have to invite your hairdresser and teacher of the class I. That friends should be chosen among those who have a close friendship and duration, which will share daily life, not those who are ready to share with you at the wedding and that’s it .In generally invite friends who are closer to you and they might be in the future. In terms of college or job colleagues, don’t invite the hole group just because you were getting along well during university .

Choosing the music

Many details are important, but most of all it is important that the guests have fun at the wedding and this depends on the music they listen. A situation in which all or most of the guests prefer a certain type of music is only theoretical. The guests are of different ages with different preferences: some like classical, others jazz, folk music etc. Although the wedding is yours, however you cannot choose the music that only you like , especially if your musical tastes are not shared even with the guests (e.g. rock). Yes, the marriage is yours, but the guests are there to celebrate with you. It is good to respect their tastes or otherwise you should not invite them. Even if, for instance you don’t like popular music, yet you can do except for a few songs, the song where all guests can dance together is in most cases very appreciated, especially when you are not only invited to attend. Try to avoid slow songs, some are sufficient, otherwise you risk that the guests get bored.

A band or a DJ

The Band

If you have a band-oriented approach it is good to ask what genre do they know better to play. Inform yourself about the repertoire that they have. If you excel in the genre popular, but have found that most guests prefer modern music, it is clear that you will have to search for someone. The selection of bands has the advantage that they create a better atmosphere. You can also try a quartet. However, if you decided on a band, make sure they have professional equipment, including station amplifier (PA). Ask if they have lights and if they are paid separately. Set prices in hours and keep in mind if you have long breaks or if they play on request.

The DJ

The simplest and most suitable way to find a good DJ for your wedding is to go on an “I saw him, I liked him”. If you were at a wedding or an event in which the atmosphere was fire, flawless music and all guests danced , regardless of age and the dance floor was never empty, is the case to get in touch with that DJ. If you do not know who is he and where to get it, ask recommendations from the bridal couple, or from the organizers of the wedding. If you have not personally seen any DJ who impress you, call the trust to the recommendation of friends, they may have been at weddings or events that you have not participated and they can recommend a good DJ. In the worst case, call the phone book or specialized sites, where you can get contact details of various DJ for weddings and you can interview them separately to find the right one. When you found the right DJ establish together the music genres that you want to listen at your wedding, the order of the songs and the price.

Choosing the right location

Finding the right location to have a unique wedding, it means much more than it is given credit. Therefore, the choice of location should not be just any part in organizing a wedding, but the key to a day to remember. Of course it is important that the location chosen to match the season to organize your wedding, or number of guests, but it is essential that work together with all other details to create a perfect atmosphere as you desire. Theme, bouquets, decorations, style wedding dress and even your personality has to create perfect harmony and the location has a duty to meet all those qualities that not only keeps the harmony, but to offer a great charm.

Beach
If you want to have a simple wedding, beautiful with elements of nature, a beach wedding is the solution. Beach weddings can be truly spectacular and memorable romantic landscapes because it offers sea, beach and sunset or dawn. The details of a wedding on the beach can vary in style from maritime to the tropical sea. You can rent a beautiful villa by the sea, a fancy restaurant or a hotel, if budget allows.

Garden
A garden of colorful flowers , plants, trees, pavers and stone sculptures is a romantic wedding location. You can do a wedding in a rustic location, if the garden is decorated with wood furniture and an elegant English furniture and decorations you choose. A wedding in the garden may be suitable for all seasons. During summer you can decorate the garden with paper lanterns ,you can choose an autumn theme harvest, and during winter you can install a heated tent and decorate it with white and silver, or you could enjoy the spring flowers and charming fragrances.

Castle or mansion
Nothing is more magical than to get married in a location that you remember other times. Locations with historical load gives a bohemian air reception. Choose a castle, a mansion or a villa . Many such sites have already suitable for wedding decorations and spacious saloons. Decide on one of the medieval styles, classic, bohemian luxury or modern gothic.

Vineyard and cellar
If you love wine and are delighted with beautiful panoramas that the vines offer, consider a vineyard or a wine cellar when you are looking for a wedding location. This location is especially fashionable among the stars .

Choosing the wedding rings

If you could say the symbol of marriage in one word, that word would be the wedding ring. It signifies a promise made before the altar and vows to love that bride and bear one another until death will take you apart . The wedding ring is worn on the fourth finger of the right hand because it is consider that this finger directly connects with the heart.

Precisely because wedding rings are worn on the finger for life, they should be chosen with great care .They have to be the best quality and you really have to like the model .Take care when you choose the model to probe, not to have any surprise that they don’t fit your finger. The wedding rings can be engraved with your names, wedding date or anything else you think it is important for both of you .Many couples choose to engrave on the rings their nicknames or favorite song title. When you are in the situation of choosing wedding rings, check them to be advertising a karate mark (24 k, 18k, 14k). You can opt for yellow gold or combinations thereof could be achieved with white gold or red to your preference. It is important to know whether the budget for wedding rings in their price includes also their engraving. Also, you can choose rings with precious stones or semi precious .The ruby signify love, the diamond loyalty .

Types of wedding rings
Gold wedding rings.
Giving of a gold ring symbolizes marriage since ancient times, so gold is a classic material for wedding rings and yellow gold remains top choices . If you have decided on yellow gold, be sure to check the wedding rings karats, inscribed with k . The higher value is greater, the more gold is more pure. If you want gold rings but you find that yellow gold is very classic, you can opt for white gold or a combination of the two. White gold should not be confused with platinum, yellow gold but who was added palladium, or an extract of radium. Being much cheaper than platinum, but with about the same color, white gold has become increasingly looking to the future bride and groom and you can find it in most jewelry. Due to the addition of palladium, white gold rings are more durable than yellow gold and are preferred for proper wedding and engagement rings that fit very well with diamonds.

Wedding rings of platinum or palladium.
For couples who want white metal rings and their purchase was allocated a budget big enough, Platinum is the best choice. Being a very durable and hard metal is indicated for the wedding, the percent worn every day, for not so easy scratching. Being much more resistant than gold, it is also more expensive, the price of labor is added by the jeweler, who will have a high price for platinum that is worked very hard. For those who would like platinum but did not have budget permits, choose rings in palladium, a platinum material in the same family, as strong, with a color very similar, but easier and cheaper default.

Titanium and tungsten wedding rings.
A very few couples opt for other material without gold, white gold and platinum wedding rings in ordering.. Titanium is more durable than gold and even platinum . Concerning the color is darker than platinum, with a gray-silver surface. Titan is generally used in the manufacture of straps for watches men, so it’s a choice for the ring. Unlike gold or platinum, titanium wedding rings can be produced in various colors Iridescent, for those who want a great wedding.

If you want you can say “NO”

We know that in our life there are three critical moments: birth, marriage, death. But one essential point is the application to marry. Marriage marks the request of a fundamentally existence of a man (or woman, if applicable).You are in trouble is the request doesn’t please your lover Women imagines this time in the most romantic way possible and if possible if it s original is better. It is a moment of great intensity … when all the attention is pointed on them, all eyes and thoughts are channeled to it, because you cannot ignore a request to marry you off, if you happen to be present. “It” is now “the center of the universe”. No one and nothing must spoil the moment.
Marriage comes from a primary human instinct. Perhaps this is also why so many survived hundreds of years and is found in all societies and civilizations of the world. True, marriage offers phenomenal benefits both individuals and society, but is simultaneously a work that began to lose meaning.

The divorce rate has risen worryingly in recent decades. Individualism emerged to the surface, supported by personal rights considered inviolable, and empowerment of women. These things have really increased divorce rate and reduced the attractiveness of marriage. Many couples today prefer to live together without having a formal act which would have deep social and legal implications. There are many reasons why people do not want to get married. One is fear of divorce. Such separation can be caused by emotional or physical abuse, extramarital affairs, lack of money to maintain a decent lifestyle and those are just a few examples. Divorce is a traumatic experience for whatever perspective you look. Stress, suffering and bad things washed in public, many of them are divorced people who don’t want to remarry and are afraid to do the same mistake a second time.
Taking in consideration all these reason, but not only, when you are proposed by your partner, if you are not sure about how much you love your partner, if he is only an decorative object in you relation, if he/she is to possessive or obsessed of control, perfectionist or have some other personality disorders then you should have the power to say no. It is not a disaster, it doesn’t matter if people will speak about this weeks after weeks. You just have to think that it is a decision that you take for life, that it is about your happiness . Even if it sounds like a selfish gesture, and you don’t think about your lover feelings, think that it is better to be sincere both with you and your partner, rather to live a life in pain in sadness.

Is he ready to say “YES?”

Men love their freedom and independence. For some, marriage is the end of freedom and the beginning of the life chain. For others it is a mistake that they do. And most people believe marriage is an exchange at which turning the eternal bond. Marriage is perceived by men as loss of sense of freedom, the obligation to have a single partner of the opposite sex, taking of responsibility and anxiety of a downturn. There could be several reasons why men are afraid to do so.

Lack of confidence in women

Although it seems rather unusual, because usually men are those who betray the trust of women, things can stay way. Many times, men started off their life with some jaundice in childhood or adolescence. Ideas that are plugged into their head by the experimented ones who already went through life and experience. Even if these ideas do not have a solid base, but are pure and simple myths, many men live with these ideas . There is also a second factor : that everything is beautiful is desirable. So then men are afraid that many others will appear in the competition better than they, and they will be removed, pushed aside. This is where the frustration and jealousy.

Entourage, friends and lifestyle

A great deal of influence it can have on an individual, is the entourage. Men usually supported celibacy, in turn why women are at the opposite pole and search for marriage and security. As long as friends will sit around, man will not find a stable partner. In the group of friends, man can be easily influenced by the views of others.

Lack of freedom

If the women compromise in this regard in one way or another, find that men have very big problems adjusting in this regard. Eternal adventurers, when they will feel the smallest spiral of freedom, they will escape. Numerous times, they suffer of the syndrome called “invasion of privacy”. The idea that someone could share everything with them shivers down. Plus, they do not support questions, explanations and personality crises of women.

But the reality is…
Fear of marriage is based on an irrational fear, the refusal to face the responsibilities and hardships of life in two. This fear is more met in the men who prefer to love without formalize the relationship . Marriage anxiety is manifested by direct rejections, but with different stated reasons that men bring to the foreground if possible to postpone marriage. Studies of couples of friends last year showed that the rate of marriage among young people is still down from previous years. The main reasons advanced by men are: lack of trust in relationships unstable and insecure, lack of a stable job.. To these it can be added the lack of socio-cultural and intellectual status congruent with partner status, lack of harmonious relationships with parents and future in-law that would endanger conjugal relationship, lack of free time that was used. But the strongest reason is that once married you have to be limited to a single partner, and this is the equivalent of monotony, the decrease in interest towards the beloved one.

To young to get married

Since we were small we dreamed to get married, to you find the Charming Prince, the man that you dream to get married in a white princess dress, to have a beautiful house and at least one baby. As we mature, however, for most of us, the idea about marriage is changing and we prefer to finish school and have a career before to get married. For others of us, marriage remains a priority and we are in a hurry, even if all those around us say we are too young for marriage. In fact, how young is too young for marriage?

What does tradition says? In the United States and beyond, the couple must have at least 18 years before they could marry without parental consent. It appears that up to 18 years is not considered mature couple legally to marry. A 1946 Gallup study showed that the consensus of the population is the ideal age for marriage for women is 21 years. The same study, repeated in 2006 show that age 25 is considered ideal for women and 27 for men. As the purpose of marriage has changed from that of tlove procreation and friendship, the average age at which women marry has started to grow increasingly. We no longer focus on sexual maturity, but rather on the emotional, psychological and even financial aspect.If most of our parents are married by the age of 25 years, now it hardly happens. Marriage is postponed as long as possible, many preferring cohabitation.

There are many couples who already have one child or more, and do not want to legalize that connection between them. Motivated often by not seeking more excitement around their wedding, in itself, meaning money thrown out the window, and the relationship they already have is perfect, even if that act is missing. And, fundamentally, the act of marriage does not alter the relationship between the two partners , relationship that it is perfect without the act. May simply have phobia of marriage certificate.
Most of young people say that marriage is no longer fashionable, we like to have other perspectives in life and for sure other models :a partnership life , celibacy or, even, marriages without children. We have become modern, we want to have fun as much and no time for marriage. The studies done lately, shows that partnerships occupy several percent, against marriage. Longitudinal studies carried out over the years have shown that women who got married teenagers , when they had the age between 16 and 19 years were three times more likely to go to divorce than women who marry after 20 years. This is usually because girls expectations about marriage and couple life are not realistic, but based on planned since childhood fantasies about the ideal couple and family life.
We are in a continuous agitation, we came to believe that there are more important things in life, than to go through the marital status or tiring to organize a party with dozens of relatives and friends. Now, the career has come to occupy a much more important place than marriage. For many women, the job is the main concern, neglecting many times, sentimental life. We feel fulfilled if we have a successful career and no longer have time for marriage! For convenience, we do not realize that these two things can go very well together.