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The colors of the wedding

Posted on Sep 25, 2009 under Wedding scenario | No Comment

A feature that defines the wedding right from the beginning is the dominant color or the colors you choose. 893021The color, combined with the style adopted, will compose the image of the event. Many brides prefer pink or red for their wedding. But you can choose other colors that, in a one stylish unit or assorted colors give a distinctive air. There are three ways to choose the wedding colors. You can choose one color, complementary colors or similar colors . It is not hard to choose any color. Find colors that are in agreement with you, with the wedding dress and the bouquet. This does not mean that you choose similar colors but on the contrary, you seek to find those little shades that contrast your outfit, so you can be in the limelight. But watch the contrasts, they should not be too large, the ideal is to create a harmonious landscape for guests’ eyes, but that you also love .

Orient yourself according to where you choose to do the wedding. The seaside fit best shades of blue, a romantic atmosphere. in a rustic landscape you can choose shades of red and green which creates a cheerful atmosphere, and if the wedding is taking place in a restaurant you can choose from of a variety of colors available, but you have to be carefully to make the right matches .

Season may influence you, you can search for colors, shapes that are in harmony with nature, to create a continuous landscape that unfolds wedding.

First you have to decide which are the dominant colors you want, then you can play in various combinations, funny or romantic, classical, modern or to create a dynamic atmosphere, full of energy.

Try with the help of the computer, in Paint for example, colors and combinations that you want. Search for shades more intense or pastel colors, contrast and accurate color and decide that you will order. You can also use the simulation programs of the rooms, they are much clearer and are less possibility of committing mistakes.

Take into account the material that will create the sets , they may look dull, silky, or be soft. These issues can change the color shade you have chosen initially because of brightness the of their materials.

Choose colors depending on what you want to express, what the wedding symbolizes for you a. You can choose a romantic atmosphere using warm colors, or a cheerful atmosphere with vivid colors, playful. You can create the elegance through a classic décor, using pastel colors darker times, harmonized and fewer contrasts. Also the extravagant decorations, exotic ones represent a choice.

Traditions on wedding day

Posted on Sep 16, 2009 under Wedding scenario | No Comment

For the superstitious ones or for people who simply want to fill the significance of their wedding day, here are some of the most popular wedding traditions and symbols, some coming from ancient times, others new, but all having something symbolic. Even if you decide not to comply with all wedding traditions, it is good to know, even if you ignore them at your wedding.
1.The marriage request.
The young man with his father and with some friends, he asks his partners hand going directly to her parents. For this event, the bride’s family prepares a feast. Although the decision is usually taken before the wedding, the petition is good for a formality because the wedding2two families can spend more time together.

2. Nuptial march
The famous nuptial march dates from 1858, during the royal wedding of Princess Victoria (United Kingdom) with Prince Frederick William (Prussia). Princess was mad about Mendelssohn and Wagner, so she chose them for her wedding. Soon, all brides in the UK had adopted the wedding march, initiating such a tradition of Western weddings.
3.Four elements
On the day of marriage, the bride can respect this tradition that requires her to wear, in order to have a successful marriage, four elements, the choice may be a piece of clothing, jewelry, etc.. But they must have these specific characteristics:

Something old
Something New
Something borrowed
Something Blue

This wedding tradition is rooted in nineteenth century in England ( “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue”). Their significance in the wedding, is the following:

Item “old” – means the bride’s family links with her life before marriage. Therefore, most often “something old” is a family heirloom that a bride will wear on her wedding day.
The ‘new’ – characterizes life success and success in the future. Therefore, it is generally the wedding dress.
Element “borrowed” – represents luck and happiness of the future bride and groom. Therefore, most times is already an accessory worn by another bride on her wedding day and has a happy life and a successful marriage.
The ‘blue’ – represents fidelity and purity in a couple. Therefore, it is often a discrete element, a handkerchief for example, all chosen by the bride.
4.Bridal veil
Some sources say that the custom dates from the time when weddings were fashionable “arranged” and the bride’s face was covered until the groom was accompanying the bride at the ceremony, at which point it was too late to change their minds, if he wouldn’t like her face.

5.The Garter
There are several origins of this tradition of exporting the Garter by the groom. In ancient times, some guests used to steal the socks of the bride when she was with her husband in the nuptial chamber, to see who is getting married next. Other sources indicate a desire of men to steal the bride’s stocking to be successful in love. And for the reason that the bride not to choose herself with the clothes torn during the party, they adopt the system as she willingly throw socks. But some younger guests, more impatient, they wanted to take it by force, so the intervention of the groom was necessary. This has led to today, to the tradition that the groom have to remove the brides socks, replaced later with the garter.

6. Bridal bouquet
In ancient times almost anything can be regarded as ominous. Therefore brides used the plant, known for protection they could provide against evils. They were caught at the bride’s dress, from head to foot, making it look more like an assorted walking salad . Later, the plants began to be replaced with flowers, only for the esthetic sense, and move from the robes on the bride’s bouquet.

Things that should not matter at your wedding

Posted on Sep 04, 2009 under The Wedding: stress or joy | No Comment

You will see that organizing a wedding requires a lot of time, dedication and in some moments, very much stress. Brides who have been through a wedding say that many of the worries and problems before the wedding, concerning various details of the organization, proved to be unnecessary. That’s because the wedding day will cwedding7oncentrate on two and on really important aspects, some details will become insignificant and in time, looking back, you will smile thinking about how much you unnecessary stressed for them.
The perfect dress. It is true that the wedding dress is very important, because since you were little you were dreaming at the perfect wedding with the perfect dress. If the dress fits you, its not too large and you can remain undressed, or its not to tight so you cannot breath, then you have the perfect dress .You will see that after you have spend so many weeks looking for the right dress, and then another weeks wondering if it is your dream dress, on your wedding day you will forget about all these aspects , and you will feel the most beautiful in the world.
Flowers for the wedding. The future bride devote a lot of time a future looking for the perfect wedding flowers . It is truth that, the bride’s bouquet is the most important and appear in most pictures, than the rest of the details of flowers. A truth not just about the flowers, but about all the wedding decorations is that no guest will not look at them twice. They will admire at the beginning , then everyone will be so concerned about you two, that detail like that will not be noticed anymore.

Guests that you don’t know. Before the wedding it is possible to have some fights with your parents on the guests and relatives you do not like or you don’t even know, but they “should” be at the wedding. The advice is to send them the invitation without thinking twice and you will see that on the wedding day, being so excited by what is happening, nobody will seem unfriendly. Then, having many guests you will be very concerned to interact with everybody and first of all with people you know and you love and so you will not even notice those for whom you are stressed before the wedding.
Superstitions. There are a lot of superstitions concerning the wedding and for sure you are thinking of them before the big day, but all that you do is that you amplify some fears that are not good for you. Just think that no one and nobody cant ruin you day especially if you are truly, madly, deeply in love with each other. It has no point to “upload” yourself with other worries when there are plenty of real things that you should worry, or maybe not, because once in your lifetime is your wedding and you want to be happy. So let the others worry for you!