Wedding Ideas

The party

Finally the wedding day is here, and everything must be perfect. So much worries in the last few months that you barely have the strength to concentrate on the party. First of all you have to establish the budget and depending on the budget but also on the theme of the wedding you can have a classic, a funny, a house, a romantic party.
Full of memories, enjoyment and appreciation of the guests is the wedding party. If you decided to make the wedding during summer , then the best choice would be to organize the wedding party outdoors. This party will need to take into account details over the organization of a local wedding.
You can have an outdoor wedding somewhere in the mountains, the sea or in a restaurant that has a large garden, possibly on the bank of a river or a lake. As these places are “hunted” by most couples to marry following appropriate that you make reservation at least a year before the wedding. Do not forget to prepared a contract by which to establish clearly which are your responsibilities, prices and responsibilities of the restaurant. If you want the wedding to take place in a public space, beach, meadow, you will have to establish what rights do you have with the city hall.
Because you will never be sure what the nature will reserve for your special day, to avoid inconveniences caused by unexpected changes of climate is required to buy a tent.
If you organize the party in a restaurant this implies a lot of aspects that don’t have to be omitted like: the location, the number of places and the number of guests, the floral arrangements, the music, details that you should take into consideration from the moment you decided that you are getting married.
But on your wedding day is more important to enjoy your moment, that it is a unique one, to dance, to socialize to feel beautiful and full of life. It is day that you have dreamed at since you were a little girl and nothing will ruin your dream. So be a happy bride!!!

Maid of honor

The maid of honor status is not a commercial invention of our time. The tradition dates from ancient Roman times, where bridesmaids formed a human shield with the role of hide the bride who didn’t had to be seen by the kidnappers. A variant of the tradition says that bridesmaids were dressed as the bride so the evil spirits to be fooled and not know which one will get marry . They were proceeding in the same way with the groom and the Knights of Honor, only that they could be exposed to evil spirits. In the nearest time, maid of honor is a close friend or sister, it really doesn’t matter , more important is to be as many.

Being maid of honor is not so easy considering the fact that your responsibilities are a lot of activities such as that of always sitting around the bride to see if she needs something, helps her to dress , put the flowers on the chest of the guests, receive the guests with a smile and the list could go on. But the hardest time is the choice of dress! First, you must think of a color! In some cases, the bride gave the green light in choosing bridesmaid dress pattern, but she asked that the color to be like her dress, that is all white.

If the future bride will have no claim and leave everything to your appreciation, then you’ll just work it out. You will have to search for a different color not like that of the bride’s dress because most of the brides prefer that no other female person should have a dress in the same color as the wedding dress . But you also have to take care when choosing the dress, because you don’t want to have a similar dress with the godmother or other important guests. So if it is possible wear an unique dress.
What is the role of a Bridesmaid?
Besides accompanying the bride to the altar, the maid of honor must be a physical and moral support. For some of us is an honor to be maid of honor, but for others can be a nightmare because the bride turns into a terrorist. But you have to be sympathetic, you will have to understand her because it will be your turn one day to be a bride. Maid of honor is the organizer of the brides party . Attention is a great responsibility and make sure you do your homework well because all the heavy work will fall on your back. Be organized and compose a list of what to do to prepare the respective parties, but also with what will happen during parties. If you have courage and you think you know your girlfriend, sister so well then you have to organize a surprise party which will appeal to them. But if you know the bride is very demanding, be sure to consult with her before you take any important decision.

Choosing the wedding invitations

Besides the wedding dress, your partner suit , cake and all sorts of interior design, a wedding means something else … invitations. Knowing that this is the first element that announces the wedding, the invitations have come to represent an extremely important issue. If the invitation is successful, then the whole event itself will be perfect … or so it is said. When it comes to the guests and the model that it will have it, it’s best to choose one that will represent you and your husband. Wedding invitation has a role similar to that of first impression that anyone can do in certain situations: the first one that announces the wedding, its mode of presentation should be related to the theme wedding and announce its style (romantic , cheerful, classic, nonconformist, etc..) . The fact that was sent to a person it means that it occupies a place somewhere in the heart of brides and should be able to provide a discreet way information about what type of party will be the wedding.
Styles of wedding invitations:
Elegant. If you want to attract the attention of your guests with good taste and refinement, such a variant is perfect. Classic combination of black and white will not go out of fashion anytime soon, and velvet, the material it is made could form a bow. This will always be fashionable.

Floral design. Floral design is very often used for wedding invitations. It symbolizes the naturalness and freshness of a relationship at the beginning of the road.

Classic. Classical variations are endless but often they are now symbols of hearts and elegant colors. Such an invitation symbolizes the connection between the two souls who are now going to go the same way.

Simple wedding=simple invitations. If the wedding will be simple you have to choose invitations with a minimal pattern. Just a simple paper on which it is written the text with a nice envelope are enough to become a wedding invitation.

Also if you don’t have a big budget
Those who want to save money but also to create some really unique wedding invitations, you may choose to do themselves, rather than resort to a specialized surveying. Whether you choose to do them on the computer, when one of the bride and groom or a close friend is familiar with graphics programs and then just print them on colored paper or make them by hand using colored paper, scissors with different models and different applications. There are lots of specialized shops Handcraft, Craft, decorations and accessories, from where you can choose. The guests will be very pleased to hear that you did your own wedding invitations!

Guests list

Creating list of wedding invitations can become a total chaos. Whether you require the mother to invite all neighbors, whether your partner insists to invite colleagues from work, you will encounter some obstacles in planning the list of guests. There is still hope. If you follow these tips then you will not have some nightmare surprises invited for your wedding.
Choose invitations depending on budget.
Before you begin to think about the guest list think about the budget that it is allocated for the wedding, but also the type of wedding that you desire. If you want a wedding with a few guests, you should choose just the important persons in your life to participate at the wedding and you can come with a plus on the menu, decorations and favors. If you want to make a big wedding, because you have so many people that you cannot cut from the list, you can opt for a more modest and less menu decorations to fit into the budget originally set. If you want to make no compromise in terms of wedding style, location, menu and decorations, you will have to limit the number of guests, so you could have the wedding that you desire without making a hole in the budget.
Who are the guests
Generally it is , told that the family who pays more for the cost of the wedding have the right to invite more people to the wedding.
The simplest approach is that each set of parents have to invite the same number of people or a proportion of funds contributed to the cost of the wedding. If your parents or in-laws really need to invite more than the number of persons than you shall consider to ask them more money to cover the spending but also not to overcome the potential of the location.It is out of the question not invite your parents, grandparents, brothers, uncles and favorite aunts, so do not talk about it, but about those relatives whom you rarely see or never . Even if the parents insist to invite them, because this is right or that have some debt to them, try to make the list so that the closest relatives to be present. Then review the budget and room capacity where the wedding is organized and only then include other people . Relatives you do not ever see or even do not know … can be excluded to protect yourself from embarrassing moments to congratulate you and squeeze you in their arms from people you have never saw in your life.
Friends and colleagues. Where’s the party and fun, tend to collect a lot of people, but that does not mean that you have to invite your hairdresser and teacher of the class I. That friends should be chosen among those who have a close friendship and duration, which will share daily life, not those who are ready to share with you at the wedding and that’s it .In generally invite friends who are closer to you and they might be in the future. In terms of college or job colleagues, don’t invite the hole group just because you were getting along well during university .

Choosing the music

Many details are important, but most of all it is important that the guests have fun at the wedding and this depends on the music they listen. A situation in which all or most of the guests prefer a certain type of music is only theoretical. The guests are of different ages with different preferences: some like classical, others jazz, folk music etc. Although the wedding is yours, however you cannot choose the music that only you like , especially if your musical tastes are not shared even with the guests (e.g. rock). Yes, the marriage is yours, but the guests are there to celebrate with you. It is good to respect their tastes or otherwise you should not invite them. Even if, for instance you don’t like popular music, yet you can do except for a few songs, the song where all guests can dance together is in most cases very appreciated, especially when you are not only invited to attend. Try to avoid slow songs, some are sufficient, otherwise you risk that the guests get bored.

A band or a DJ

The Band

If you have a band-oriented approach it is good to ask what genre do they know better to play. Inform yourself about the repertoire that they have. If you excel in the genre popular, but have found that most guests prefer modern music, it is clear that you will have to search for someone. The selection of bands has the advantage that they create a better atmosphere. You can also try a quartet. However, if you decided on a band, make sure they have professional equipment, including station amplifier (PA). Ask if they have lights and if they are paid separately. Set prices in hours and keep in mind if you have long breaks or if they play on request.

The DJ

The simplest and most suitable way to find a good DJ for your wedding is to go on an “I saw him, I liked him”. If you were at a wedding or an event in which the atmosphere was fire, flawless music and all guests danced , regardless of age and the dance floor was never empty, is the case to get in touch with that DJ. If you do not know who is he and where to get it, ask recommendations from the bridal couple, or from the organizers of the wedding. If you have not personally seen any DJ who impress you, call the trust to the recommendation of friends, they may have been at weddings or events that you have not participated and they can recommend a good DJ. In the worst case, call the phone book or specialized sites, where you can get contact details of various DJ for weddings and you can interview them separately to find the right one. When you found the right DJ establish together the music genres that you want to listen at your wedding, the order of the songs and the price.