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Choosing the wedding invitations

admin — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 20:09:02 +0000

Besides the wedding dress, your partner suit , cake and all sorts of interior design, a wedding means something else … invitations. Knowing that this is the first element that announces the wedding, the invitations have come to represent an extremely important issue. If the invitation is successful, then the whole event itself will be perfect … or so it is said. When it comes to the guests and the model that it will have it, it’s best to choose one that will represent you and your husband. Wedding invitation has a role similar to that of first impression that anyone can do in certain situations: the first one that announces the wedding, its mode of presentation should be related to the theme wedding and announce its style (romantic , cheerful, classic, nonconformist, etc..) . The fact that was sent to a person it means that it occupies a place somewhere in the heart of brides and should be able to provide a discreet way information about what type of party will be the wedding.
Styles of wedding invitations:
Elegant. If you want to attract the attention of your guests with good taste and refinement, such a variant is perfect. Classic combination of black and white will not go out of fashion anytime soon, and velvet, the material it is made could form a bow. This will always be fashionable.

Floral design. Floral design is very often used for wedding invitations. It symbolizes the naturalness and freshness of a relationship at the beginning of the road.

Classic. Classical variations are endless but often they are now symbols of hearts and elegant colors. Such an invitation symbolizes the connection between the two souls who are now going to go the same way.

Simple wedding=simple invitations. If the wedding will be simple you have to choose invitations with a minimal pattern. Just a simple paper on which it is written the text with a nice envelope are enough to become a wedding invitation.

Also if you don’t have a big budget
Those who want to save money but also to create some really unique wedding invitations, you may choose to do themselves, rather than resort to a specialized surveying. Whether you choose to do them on the computer, when one of the bride and groom or a close friend is familiar with graphics programs and then just print them on colored paper or make them by hand using colored paper, scissors with different models and different applications. There are lots of specialized shops Handcraft, Craft, decorations and accessories, from where you can choose. The guests will be very pleased to hear that you did your own wedding invitations!

Guests list

admin — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 20:05:39 +0000

Creating list of wedding invitations can become a total chaos. Whether you require the mother to invite all neighbors, whether your partner insists to invite colleagues from work, you will encounter some obstacles in planning the list of guests. There is still hope. If you follow these tips then you will not have some nightmare surprises invited for your wedding.
Choose invitations depending on budget.
Before you begin to think about the guest list think about the budget that it is allocated for the wedding, but also the type of wedding that you desire. If you want a wedding with a few guests, you should choose just the important persons in your life to participate at the wedding and you can come with a plus on the menu, decorations and favors. If you want to make a big wedding, because you have so many people that you cannot cut from the list, you can opt for a more modest and less menu decorations to fit into the budget originally set. If you want to make no compromise in terms of wedding style, location, menu and decorations, you will have to limit the number of guests, so you could have the wedding that you desire without making a hole in the budget.
Who are the guests
Generally it is , told that the family who pays more for the cost of the wedding have the right to invite more people to the wedding.
The simplest approach is that each set of parents have to invite the same number of people or a proportion of funds contributed to the cost of the wedding. If your parents or in-laws really need to invite more than the number of persons than you shall consider to ask them more money to cover the spending but also not to overcome the potential of the location.It is out of the question not invite your parents, grandparents, brothers, uncles and favorite aunts, so do not talk about it, but about those relatives whom you rarely see or never . Even if the parents insist to invite them, because this is right or that have some debt to them, try to make the list so that the closest relatives to be present. Then review the budget and room capacity where the wedding is organized and only then include other people . Relatives you do not ever see or even do not know … can be excluded to protect yourself from embarrassing moments to congratulate you and squeeze you in their arms from people you have never saw in your life.
Friends and colleagues. Where’s the party and fun, tend to collect a lot of people, but that does not mean that you have to invite your hairdresser and teacher of the class I. That friends should be chosen among those who have a close friendship and duration, which will share daily life, not those who are ready to share with you at the wedding and that’s it .In generally invite friends who are closer to you and they might be in the future. In terms of college or job colleagues, don’t invite the hole group just because you were getting along well during university .

Choosing the music

admin — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 20:02:26 +0000

Many details are important, but most of all it is important that the guests have fun at the wedding and this depends on the music they listen. A situation in which all or most of the guests prefer a certain type of music is only theoretical. The guests are of different ages with different preferences: some like classical, others jazz, folk music etc. Although the wedding is yours, however you cannot choose the music that only you like , especially if your musical tastes are not shared even with the guests (e.g. rock). Yes, the marriage is yours, but the guests are there to celebrate with you. It is good to respect their tastes or otherwise you should not invite them. Even if, for instance you don’t like popular music, yet you can do except for a few songs, the song where all guests can dance together is in most cases very appreciated, especially when you are not only invited to attend. Try to avoid slow songs, some are sufficient, otherwise you risk that the guests get bored.

A band or a DJ

The Band

If you have a band-oriented approach it is good to ask what genre do they know better to play. Inform yourself about the repertoire that they have. If you excel in the genre popular, but have found that most guests prefer modern music, it is clear that you will have to search for someone. The selection of bands has the advantage that they create a better atmosphere. You can also try a quartet. However, if you decided on a band, make sure they have professional equipment, including station amplifier (PA). Ask if they have lights and if they are paid separately. Set prices in hours and keep in mind if you have long breaks or if they play on request.

The DJ

The simplest and most suitable way to find a good DJ for your wedding is to go on an “I saw him, I liked him”. If you were at a wedding or an event in which the atmosphere was fire, flawless music and all guests danced , regardless of age and the dance floor was never empty, is the case to get in touch with that DJ. If you do not know who is he and where to get it, ask recommendations from the bridal couple, or from the organizers of the wedding. If you have not personally seen any DJ who impress you, call the trust to the recommendation of friends, they may have been at weddings or events that you have not participated and they can recommend a good DJ. In the worst case, call the phone book or specialized sites, where you can get contact details of various DJ for weddings and you can interview them separately to find the right one. When you found the right DJ establish together the music genres that you want to listen at your wedding, the order of the songs and the price.

Choosing the cameraman

admin — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:38:54 +0000

A memorable day, memorable moments, smiles and tears, the joy of a unique moment …. items on which the film and your wedding album should contain! Filming and photographing the event may remain the only reminder of your wedding and choosing the cameraman and photographer is essential in this regard. Do not let the choice of photographer for the last hundred meters, but start early searches, talking with many photographers and studying their albums, only through such a selection you can find the right one for you.

Offer of the photographer/cameraman. After meetings with various photographers, you will see that each has a unique offer, although generally they have a similar offer , each will try to give you a little more. Remember though that any agreement can be negotiated ,and once you’ve reached an agreement, sign a written contract which includes everything that it is stipulated in the package . Some photographers are paid on time, which is not a good idea, because they do not know how to stretch the reception and you might pay him overtime. In general, however, the photographers works depending on the number of photo frames.

The personality of the photographer/cameraman. Along with your new husband, the photographer will be the person with whom you will interact most of the time on the wedding day and he will be follow you everywhere. Therefore it is important to manage to link a friendly relationship, to feel good with him so you can communicate openly. No matter how professional is the photographer /cameraman and how happy are the photos /videos that you’ve seen in his portfolio, should be open to any suggestions of the bride. On the same principle ,it doesn’t help to choose a photographer who is very sympathetic and makes good jokes if the shoots that he takes are not what you desire.

Processing pictures/videos. To have no unpleasant surprises related to pictures of the wedding, no matter how nice and talented is the photographer, do not forget to ask which is the processing time of the shooting. Some photographers are very professional and strictly observe deadlines, while others lengthen very much processing. Once you have establish by mutual agreement a period of several days or weeks, remember to go at the date stipulated in the contract.

Things that should not matter at your wedding

admin — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 17:21:11 +0000

You will see that organizing a wedding requires a lot of time, dedication and in some moments, very much stress. Brides who have been through a wedding say that many of the worries and problems before the wedding, concerning various details of the organization, proved to be unnecessary. That’s because the wedding day will concentrate on two and on really important aspects, some details will become insignificant and in time, looking back, you will smile thinking about how much you unnecessary stressed for them.
The perfect dress. It is true that the wedding dress is very important, because since you were little you were dreaming at the perfect wedding with the perfect dress. If the dress fits you, its not too large and you can remain undressed, or its not to tight so you cannot breath, then you have the perfect dress .You will see that after you have spend so many weeks looking for the right dress, and then another weeks wondering if it is your dream dress, on your wedding day you will forget about all these aspects , and you will feel the most beautiful in the world.
Flowers for the wedding. The future bride devote a lot of time a future looking for the perfect wedding flowers . It is truth that, the bride’s bouquet is the most important and appear in most pictures, than the rest of the details of flowers. A truth not just about the flowers, but about all the wedding decorations is that no guest will not look at them twice. They will admire at the beginning , then everyone will be so concerned about you two, that detail like that will not be noticed anymore.

Guests that you don’t know. Before the wedding it is possible to have some fights with your parents on the guests and relatives you do not like or you don’t even know, but they “should” be at the wedding. The advice is to send them the invitation without thinking twice and you will see that on the wedding day, being so excited by what is happening, nobody will seem unfriendly. Then, having many guests you will be very concerned to interact with everybody and first of all with people you know and you love and so you will not even notice those for whom you are stressed before the wedding.
Superstitions. There are a lot of superstitions concerning the wedding and for sure you are thinking of them before the big day, but all that you do is that you amplify some fears that are not good for you. Just think that no one and nobody cant ruin you day especially if you are truly, madly, deeply in love with each other. It has no point to “upload” yourself with other worries when there are plenty of real things that you should worry, or maybe not, because once in your lifetime is your wedding and you want to be happy. So let the others worry for you!